When the Old Story Ends: Navigating the In - Between Space of Change
There are seasons in life when something begins to shift, even before you can clearly name what it is.
You may still be moving through your days in the same way, showing up in familiar roles, keeping up with responsibilities, and doing what has always made sense. From the outside, very little may appear to have changed.
And yet, there is a quiet awareness underneath it all that something no longer feels quite the same.
The direction that once felt clear may begin to feel less certain. The goals that once motivated you may no longer carry the same meaning. Even the way you relate to yourself and others can start to feel slightly out of alignment, as though you are outgrowing something that used to fit.
This is not always dramatic or obvious.
More often, it shows up in subtle ways, in moments of hesitation, in a sense of restlessness, or in the quiet thought that there may be more than what you are currently experiencing.
These are often the early signs that an old story is beginning to come to an end.
Not because anything has gone wrong, but because something within you is beginning to change.
The In-Between Is Not a Mistake
What comes next does not always arrive right away.
There is often a space in between, where the old way no longer fits, but the new way has not yet fully taken shape.
This space can feel uncomfortable because it does not offer clear direction or immediate answers. You may find yourself questioning where you are, wondering what you are supposed to do next, or feeling like you should have more clarity than you do.
It can be tempting to move quickly through this phase, to make a decision, choose a direction, or return to something familiar just to regain a sense of certainty.
But this in-between space is not something to rush through.
It is part of the process of change.
Growth does not always move forward in a straight line. Sometimes it asks you to pause in uncertainty, not as a delay, but as a way of allowing something more aligned to begin forming.
When Something Deeper Is Asking for Attention
For many women, this space is not only about uncertainty. It is also where deeper patterns begin to come into view.
You may start to notice that certain reactions, choices, or relationship dynamics continue to repeat, even when you have already spent time reflecting on them or trying to approach them differently.
There can be a sense of knowing what you would like to change, paired with a difficulty in actually doing so.
At a certain point, insight on its own can begin to feel incomplete.
This is often where a different kind of awareness begins to open, one that is less focused on figuring things out from the surface and more interested in understanding what is happening underneath.
Rather than something to solve immediately, this can become an invitation to slow down and begin relating to yourself in a more honest and attentive way.
Staying With What Is Unfolding
Remaining in this space does not mean that you are stuck.
It means that you are in a phase where something is still unfolding.
Instead of trying to force clarity, it can be helpful to begin by noticing what no longer feels sustainable, where your energy naturally pulls away, and what continues to return to your awareness even when you try to set it aside.
These signals may not yet form a clear path, but they begin to point toward what is changing.
Allowing this process to unfold gradually can feel unfamiliar, especially if you are used to moving quickly or having a clear sense of direction.
But there is a different kind of movement that happens here, one that is quieter, more grounded, and more aligned with who you are becoming.
A Place to Explore What Is Emerging
For some, staying with this process becomes easier when there is a space that supports reflection without pressure.
Not a space that asks you to have answers, but one that allows you to be with your experience as it is, and to begin noticing what may be asking for your attention in a more intentional way.
If you find yourself in this in-between space and feel the pull to explore it more deeply, there are a few opportunities this month that are designed to support exactly that kind of process.
Each one offers a slightly different way of working with what is unfolding, whether through quiet reflection, guided exploration, or shared conversation. (see the upcoming events below)
Closing Reflection
If you find yourself in this space, it may help to remember that you are not behind and you are not lost.
You are in a moment where something is shifting, even if it is not yet fully visible.
And sometimes, the most meaningful step is not to rush toward what is next, but to stay present long enough to understand what is beginning to emerge.
Journal Questions:
What in your life is beginning to feel out of alignment, even if you cannot yet name why?
What keeps returning to your awareness, the thought, feeling, or longing that will not let itself be set aside?
If this in-between space is not something to fix or rush through, what might it be asking you to stay with a little longer?
UPCOMING EVENTS:
🌿 Wild New Way Women’s Collective: Monthly Open Gathering
Wednesday, May 13, 2026 | 8:30 – 10:00 AM MST
📍 The Durango Collective
This monthly gathering is a simple and intentional space for women to pause and step out of the usual rhythm of daily life.
Rather than focusing on solving problems or moving quickly toward answers, the emphasis is on creating room to slow down and notice what is present beneath the surface. Through light guidance and reflection, you are supported in tuning into your own experience without pressure to perform or explain anything.
Over time, this kind of space can help you recognize patterns more clearly while also feeling more grounded and connected to yourself.
You can expect to leave with a clearer sense of what has been asking for your attention, along with a steadier way of relating to where you are right now.
Whether you are new to town or a seasoned local, this is the place for you to meet like-minded women who want to support each other, deeply connect, and have fun conversations.
You don't need to prepare anything, you're welcome exactly as you are.
Bring your favorite beverage to enjoy, and light snacks will be provided.
8:30 - 9 am Mingle and connect | 9-10 am Guided process and conversation | Stay after for more connection if you like!
*Donation-based, pay what you can.
*Please register ahead of time to help me prepare the space and plan for the group.
Register here: https://wildnewway.myflodesk.com/womenscollectivemay13
🌿 Meeting Your Shadow: Shadow Work Workshop for Women
Wednesday, May 20, 2026 | 8:30 – 10:30 AM MST
📍 The Durango Collective
If you have found yourself repeating the same patterns, even after trying to understand or work through them, this workshop offers a way to begin exploring what may be beneath those experiences.
This is a space for women to slow down and work more directly with the parts of themselves that shape reactions, choices, and relationship patterns, often outside of conscious awareness.
During this workshop, you will be guided through a process that helps you notice patterns more clearly, understand what may be driving them, and begin relating to those parts of yourself with more awareness and intention.
Participants often leave with a stronger sense of clarity around their patterns, along with practical ways to work with them in everyday life rather than feeling driven by them.
This kind of work can support you in moving from reacting in familiar ways to responding from a place that feels more grounded and aligned.
💰 $49
Register here: https://wildnewway.myflodesk.com/womenscollectiveexploringtheshadow
🌿 Book Club (Online) – The Golden Shadow Method
Tuesday, May 26, 2026 | 5:00 – 6:30 PM MST
📍 Online
This online gathering offers a thoughtful way to explore the idea that the qualities you admire in others may reflect strengths within you that have not yet been fully recognized.
Through guided conversation, you will begin to understand how projection shows up in everyday life and how it can point toward parts of yourself that are ready to be acknowledged and developed.
Rather than approaching growth through pressure or performance, this conversation focuses on recognizing what is already present and learning how to relate to it in a grounded and practical way.
You can expect to leave with a clearer understanding of how your perceptions of others connect to your own potential, along with simple ways to begin integrating those qualities into your life.
Whether you have read the book fully, partially, or not at all, you are welcome to join and participate in a way that feels comfortable.
💰 Free
🔗 https://wildnewway.myflodesk.com/thegoldenshadowmethodonline
🌿 Wild New Way Women’s Collective – Guest Speaker (For Women)
Green Lights: Move Before You’re Ready with Lorisha Ionno
Wednesday, May 27, 2026 | 8:30 – 10:00 AM MST
📍 The Durango Collective
This session offers a space for women to explore how moments of change often begin before clarity is fully formed.
Rather than waiting until everything feels certain, this conversation looks at how to recognize the subtle signals that something is ready to shift and how to respond to those signals in a way that feels grounded and intentional.
Through Lorisha Ionno’s story and perspective, you will be invited to reflect on what may already be present in your own life, even if it has not yet been fully defined.
This kind of conversation can support you in moving through hesitation with more trust, while also helping you feel more confident in taking small, aligned steps forward.
You can expect to leave with a clearer sense of what your next step might be, along with a more grounded way of approaching uncertainty without needing everything to be fully figured out.
💰 Free (registration required)
🔗 https://wildnewway.myflodesk.com/womenscollective0527
🌿 Book Club (In Person) – The Golden Shadow Method
Thursday, May 28, 2026 | 5:00 – 7:00 PM MST
📍 The Gather Room
This in-person gathering offers a relaxed and welcoming space to explore the same ideas from the book in a more personal and connected way.
Together, you will reflect on how admiration, comparison, and even envy can point toward strengths within you that may not yet feel fully accessible.
The conversation is designed to help you begin recognizing those qualities and consider how they can be expressed in a way that feels natural and grounded in your everyday life.
Being in a shared space often makes it easier to connect these ideas to your own experience while feeling supported in the process.
You are welcome to participate at your own pace, whether that means listening, reflecting, or sharing.🔗 https://wildnewway.myflodesk.com/thegoldenshadowmethodinperson
With love and light,
Cindy Schmidt
Owner, Wild New Way Jungian Life & Relationship Coaching
wildnewway.com | 970-985-2416 | 813 Main Ave, Suite 201, Durango, CO
If you're feeling stuck in your relationships, unsure of your purpose, or simply looking for deeper meaning and fulfillment in your life, as a Certified Master Jungian Life and Relationship coach, Cindy Schmidt can help guide you toward greater self-awareness, clarity, and connection.
Through the lens of Jungian Psychology and Eastern Philosophy, you'll gain a deeper understanding of your inner world and develop tools to navigate life's challenges with greater ease and grace. If you're ready to embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery and growth, take action now and book a Complimentary Clarity Session with Cindy. The benefits of this work are immeasurable, and the possibilities for your life are endless. Don't wait another day to start living your most fulfilling, authentic life.